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October is the Month to Put it ALL Out There; Visualize your Goals and Make a Strategic Run for your 2015 Finish Line!
One of the principles that Jack Canfield teaches, is “Act as if.” Act as if you are already where you want to be. That means thinking like, talking like, dressing like, acting like, and feeling like the person you will become after you have achieved your goals.
In fact, Canfield created the Come as You Will Be, Party. “At the party you are to arrive as who you will be 5 years from now. Dress your best. Speak only in the present tense the entire evening, as if it is already 2020 and all your goals have been achieved and all your dreams have already come true. Bring props to show everyone what you have achieved in the years between, such as bestselling books you’ve written, magazine covers you’ve been on, awards you’ve won, and photographs or scrapbooks of your achievements. Throughout the evening you will have the opportunity to applaud others in their achievements and to receive congratulations for yours.”
Jack’s “party” idea made me stop and think about how I would want to show up at my “Come as You Will Be….in 2020” Party. After much reflection, I decide I would show up as a an ALS survivor, a best selling author founding the #1 women’s networking organization and the #1 life coach training program. Since I don’t have a live party to attend yet, I decide to visualize the entire process for right now.
Visualizing my “Come as You Will Be….in 2020” party….
- Where is my party? My party is at the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Naples, FL.
- Who is at my party? All of my children and their spouses, grandchildren, husband, siblings, and parents are here along with all of my friends.
- How will I act? I am acting confident, carefree and peaceful. I am sharing all the details around the risks I took to be part of a successful ALS clinical trial. And how we purchased a riverfront home to celebrate the years we now have together since my disease went into remission 4 years ago. I show my peers a copy of my new bestselling mystery novel and share with them how inspiring my book tour was. I proudly announce that the So Now Professional Network for Women, which I founded 10 years ago, has grown like crazy and now prospers in 14 states.
- What will I wear? I am wearing a flowing long dress in black and white silk satin, beautiful jewelry, photos of my book cover are clenched in my hand and I am wearing my So Now logo pin. My husband is escorting me around proudly. I am fit and healthy.
- How will I think? Philippians 4:13 summarizes perfectly how I am thinking. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” I no longer hear people say under their breath, “It just breaks my heart when I see her.” Because instead, they are saying, “It inspires my heart when I see her”.
- What will I talk like? I will communicate from a grateful heart and be present for every moment. I will use future focused vocabulary and talk excitedly about the wonderful possibilities in store for my family. I am confident that my next 5 years will be as wonderful as my past 5 years.
- How will I feel? Accomplished. Happy. Fulfilled. Complete. Faithful. Inspired. Connected. Appreciated. Successful. WOW!
Two days after my, “Come as you will be, Party” visualization what am I experiencing? I am not sure if my visualization process is as effective as actually attending a “Come as you will be” party – which I will be planning soon – but I must admit that I am noticing small shifts in my mindset. I am more positive, future-oriented, hopeful and my goals feel more doable!
If you were invited to a “Come as you will be…in 2020” party, how to you see yourself acting and feeling? What will you be wearing and talking about? I would love to hear!
Enjoy your amazing day! Jenn
Enjoy your amazing day! Jenn
The 3 O's to an Over-The-Top October.....
1. Outstanding Feedback will help you reach your goals more quickly. Embrace the positive and negative feedback that comes your way.
1. Outstanding Feedback will help you reach your goals more quickly. Embrace the positive and negative feedback that comes your way.
2. Open Up your calendar and put in the time, build momentum and be willing to do what ever it takes to reach your goals.
3. Operate from a place of gratitude at all times.
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- Leadership Coaching Tip for October: "Painful Thought Reframe" by Sean Smith.
When to Use: When you have a painful thought or are stuck on a belief that is not serving you. Intention: Dissolve or reframe the negative thought.
Steps: Start with a limiting belief or painful thought - Ask yourself....
Q#1: Is that a truth, like a universal law that's true for everybody, or is it an opinion based on experiences? Whose opinion?
Q#2: How do you feel, how do you react, or what happens when you are believing that thought? What are the costs of holding onto it?
Q#3: Who would you be without that thought?
Q#4: Just for now, are you willing to consider the contrary (opposite thought)?
Q#5: What can you appreciate or be enthusiastic about now?
Q#6: What are you willing to DO?
Q#1: Is that a truth, like a universal law that's true for everybody, or is it an opinion based on experiences? Whose opinion?
Q#2: How do you feel, how do you react, or what happens when you are believing that thought? What are the costs of holding onto it?
Q#3: Who would you be without that thought?
Q#4: Just for now, are you willing to consider the contrary (opposite thought)?
Q#5: What can you appreciate or be enthusiastic about now?
Q#6: What are you willing to DO?
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- SO EXCITING - SAVE THE DATE - CELEBREATE with Jenn at her Book Signing...."The Soul of Success" Co-Author with Jack Canfield. Thursday, October, 21st * 5:30 pm * Chandler's Cafe, Sylvania, OH ** Purchase Your Personal Copy on Amazon: Click HERE
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Enjoy Your Wonderful Day!
Many Blessings, Jenn
Many Blessings, Jenn
Psalm 18:32, 35 - "It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. You give me your shield of victory, and your right hand sustains me; you stoop down to make me great."
Tony Gaskins - "If you don't build your dream someone will hire you to help build theirs."
Tony Gaskins - "If you don't build your dream someone will hire you to help build theirs."
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Jenn Wenzke
Life & Motivational Coach
NLP Master Practitioner
MBTI Master Practitioner
MBTI Master Practitioner
Website: So Now Coaching
Facebook Business Page: So Now Coaching
Founder of "So Now" Network for Professional Women
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